Eliminate Kids for Cash bonuses in Family Courts

M Barnett posted: " Dear Presidential Candidates, Representatives in Congress, Tax Payers-Voters: Eliminate Dangerous HHS Funding Fueling a War on Children https://secure.avaaz.org/en/petition/Presidential_Candidates_Representatives_in_Congress_Tax_PayersVoters_Elimin" New post on American Mothers of Lost Children Eliminate Kids for Cash bonuses in Family Courts by M Barnett Dear Presidential Candidates, Representatives in Congress, Tax Payers-Voters: Eliminate Dangerous HHS Funding Fueling a War on Children https://secure.avaaz.org/en/petition/Presidential_Candidates_Representatives_in_Congress_Tax_PayersVoters_Eliminate_Dangerous_HHS_Funding_Fueling_a_War_on_Ch/?nlDePib Why this is important Our Kids are Big Money in Politics and Policies that govern our nation and our Custody Courts.  Did you know that tax payers are funding programs to help ex-cons get custody of their children? Yes, rapists and pedophiles are helped by fatherhood.gov funding which is fueling the dangerous decisions by family and dependency court judges. $$$50,000,000,000 is a big incentive for choosing fathering over safety. Stop refunding efforts now! This funding violates the CIVIL RIGHTS ACT OF 1964 – TITLE IX"No person in the United States shall, on the basis of sex, be excluded from participation in, be denied the benefits of, or be subjected to discrimination under any education program or activity receiving Federal financial assistance" More than 58,000 children a year are taken from safe non-offending, attached mothers and placed in the custody of violent and abusive men during Domestic Violence Divorces as a result of legal maneuvers to insure funding streams to the court. http://www.leadershipcouncil.org/1/med/PR3.html Children of Domestic Violence need protection. WE must end entitlement programs that are Gender Biased putting Women and Children in danger for loss of contact and worse. WE need federal Oversight Hearings and Audits on Funding to the Courts. WE must have Judicial Oversight and retooling of Family Courts to ensure safety and fairness. WE need a National Policy on Childhood Safety. 1 in 3 Children are sexually Assaulted before the age of 18 in the US. 31 states allow rapists to sue for custody http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/01/us/rapist-child-custody/ WE need leaders who care about Our Children. The Health and Welfare of our Nations Children are in peril. Stop Kids for Cash Programs!!! WE can create a brighter future together let's Vote Like a Mother! Lets create Kid Safe Programs, lets start with a Resolution on Safety of our Nations Children with a Safe Child Act for children in State Custody. Example : HB1701, the Safe Child Act, which will protect children in Family Court https://stopabusecampaign.com/hawaii-pass-the-safe-child-act/ Example Resolution and action plan- http://mothersoflostchildren.org/action-items/contact-your-congressional-representative/ A Clear and Present Danger- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTtxjtPvc6g Family Court Crisis exposed- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OMW63og6H1k Financial Incentives put children at risk- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KD2TowPuYVg Former Court Mediator turned Whistleblower recommend oversight https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ts68uH4553A Breaking the Silence on Children's Stories https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3rShllw2gMk The Legal System has ways of quieting the voices of children https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89OnAXpnRLE Child trafficking through the courts https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lV3DYRoHGbQ http://mothersoflostchildren.org/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/anne-stevenson/top-5-hhs-programs-endang_b_1511613.html http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ http://www.protect.org/ http://www.dvleap.org/ www.protectiveparents.com http://child-justice.org/ https://www.legalmomentum.org/ http://www.mothersclu.org/ http://www.protectivemoms.net/media.html M Barnett | February 9, 2016 at 1:03 am | Tags: child abuse, Child custody, child sexual abuse, Children of Divorce, Children of Domestic Violence, Civil Rights, Court Ordered Abuse, Domestic Violence Divorce, family courts, Justice, Mothers of Lost Children, Mothers who have lost custody, Women's Rights | Categories: Court Ordered Child Trafficking, Failures of the American Justice System, Falsely Accused Moms and Court Crimes | URL: http://wp.me/p42SoG-1mQ Comment    See all comments

A recipe for Disaster: a coercive controller and family court

M Barnett posted: " Who stole the Cookie from the cookie Jar? The Judge That's who! see: http://www.americangreetings.com/ecards/view?p=3398821&m=6721&i=635249863&rr=y&source=agfb&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=pickup " New post on American Mothers of Lost Children A recipe for Disaster: a coercive controller and family court by M Barnett Who stole the Cookie from the cookie Jar? The Judge That's who! see: http://www.americangreetings.com/ecards/view?p=3398821&m=6721&i=635249863&rr=y&source=agfb&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=pickup Coercive Controllers use the Courts to continue a reign of terror- Unlike cookies when the timer goes off their done...with coercive controllers using courts to continue conflict...it never ends.  With entitled and monied litigants they can keep the case in court for years even decades, and with the help of federal funding and incentives court professionals get rich off the misery of American families while destroying our children's lives for profit According to the  YWCA Vancouver "Court-Related Abuse and Harassment:  Leaving an abuser can be harder than staying" Court-Related Abuse and Harassment: Leaving an Abuser can be Harder than Staying "Perpetrators may use litigation as a form of ongoing control and harassment. The family court litigation process can become a tool for batterers to continue their abusive behaviour in a new forum (Jaffe et al., 2003a). Litigation exacts a high emotional and financial price for abused women already overwhelmed with the aftermath of a violent relationship. Some authors have suggested that some batterers have the presentation and social skills to present themselves positively in court and convince assessors and judges to award them custody (Bowermaster & Johnson, 1998; Zorza, 1995). In many cases, perpetrators are self- represented, heightening the possibilities for abuse through berating a former partner in cross-examination." The Recipe for a High Conflict Divorce: https://stopabusecampaign.com/recipe-for-disaster/ M Barnett | February 3, 2016 at 5:31 am | Tags: child abuse, Child custody, Children of Divorce, Court Ordered Abuse, Justice, legal abuse, Mothers of Lost Children, Mothers who have lost custody, Stop Abuse Campaign, Women's Rights | Categories: Court Ordered Child Trafficking, Failures of the American Justice System, Falsely Accused Moms and Court Crimes | URL: http://wp.me/p42SoG-1lU Comment    See all comments

Neglect and Court Ordered Abuse

M Barnett posted: " This story was shared by a concerned mother recently maybe someone can relate- tp rations "so I just heard a new story ........one of a million from my daughter She struggles with ptsd and bipolar........ so sad she has so many sto" New post on American Mothers of Lost Children Neglect and Court Ordered Abuse by M Barnett This story was shared by a concerned mother recently maybe someone can relate- tp rations "so I just heard a new story ........one of a million from my daughter She struggles with ptsd and bipolar........ so sad she has so many stories tucked away........... she might have uti...... she said she had it at her fathers...." because she tried to save her toilet paper which was rationed between  step siblings, two babies and her brother, my son.......... and got uti....... did not go to doctors....... got worse infection......hospital for the love of God......  Tp rations horrible.... ridiculous..... and this was the Father awarded custody.... sick..... sick.... so triggered by it..... I was paying one third my income for this? she was saving tp for number two..... how sad is that.... terrible double standards they could shift custody if it was at your house ---it is ignored if reported at his house poor child..... yes...... God Come Quickly..... how are you? I am so triggered by this story.... I don't sleep anymore I think I said the same sentence poor thing I barely do and anxiety worsening (I remember my child struggled too......terrible...I remember the heartache for the child who was stolen and not cared for....it hurt my daughter to tell me the stories of neglect....she knew it would hurt me....my heart ached for this mother, this child and my own....)  its time to demand Justice and Equality – Contact your Representatives and Demand Federal Oversight Hearings on Child Safety in Custody Cases A National Scandal: American Mothers March to Defend Motherhood and Children's Human Rights Is family court really a "kids for cash" business? An estimated 58,000 children a year are court-ordered for custody or unsupervised visitation with reported abusers. That means in many cases, children are being ordered to live with their rapists. Child custody courts are generating approximately $50 billion dollars a year from the business of exploiting families in crisis and putting children in direct harm's way. Adverse childhood experiences are the most basic cause of health risk behaviors, morbidity, disability, mortality, and health care costs. In fact, it costs taxpayers $500 billion dollars a year in health care related costs due to adverse childhood experiences. SURGEON GENERAL'S WARNING: FAMILY COURT IS BAD FOR YOUR HEALTH- by  Patrice Lenowitz, Executive Director Nurtured Parent founder, group co-facilitator, domestic violence survivor, advocate The SAFETY, HEALTH and WELLBEING of our nation's WOMEN and CHILDREN must become our TOP PRIORITY in LAW and SOCIETY. -Patrice Lenowitz Safe Child Act: Making health, safety of CT children the priority JANUARY 21, 2016 "The most dangerous time for a woman victim of DV is when she leaves her abusive partner. Once an abuser recognizes that he has lost control, he will seek control in other ways. Most court professionals fail to understand that custody is the most common tactic used by these abusers. Court professionals have been taught to treat contested custody as "high conflict cases, but between 75-90 percent are really these dangerous DV cases... It is time that custody courts stop practices that pressure victims to cooperate with their abusers and instead force abusers to stop their abuse if they want a relationship with their children. It is time for the courts to integrate important research like ACE and Saunders into their practices. It is time to reform outdated practices from the 1970s." -Barry Goldstein http://ctviewpoints.org/2016/01/21/the-safe-child-act-making-health-safety-of-connecticut-children-the-priority/ M Barnett | January 23, 2016 at 5:47 am | Tags: Barry Goldstein, child abuse, Child custody, Children of Divorce, Children of Domestic Violence, Domestic Violence, Justice, Mothers of Lost Children, Mothers who have lost custody, Patrice Lenowitz, Women's Rights | Categories: Court Ordered Child Trafficking, Failures of the American Justice System, Falsely Accused Moms and Court Crimes | URL: http://wp.me/p42SoG-1lC Comment    See all comments Trouble clicking? Copy and paste this URL into your browser: http://mothersoflostchildren.org/2016/01/neglect-and-court-ordered-abuse/